The wedding month(at least here in Kenya) is slowly approaching. Singles are just about to start tormenting themselves with questions they cannot themselves answer. Don’t worry, I just figured out someone for you. Before you decide who to marry, first marry yourself, love yourself, walk yourself down the aisle and put a ring on it. Be content with who you are and love yourself for better or worse. Many times we think that until we find that job, until we graduate, until we are accepted by whoever we hold so highly or until we get married then our lives don’t have meaning. This explains why we have many unhappy marriages, disappointed employees, unhealthy friendships and frustrated graduates. Life gives you people and situations to help you work on yourself and until you overcome your own devils, the same situations will keep happening to you. Love yourself the way you want someone else to love you. Do not rely on people’s opinions and behavior towards you as your source of fulfillment because you will be disappointed in a big way. Derive your fulfillment from within because you got it! Happiness comes from within.
When you are so determined to live a fulfilling life, it’s only a matter of time and you will be attracting the right people in your life and also identifying the fake ones. You will manage to forgive yourself and move on no matter what happens. You will also love people as they are, regardless of their behavior towards you. You will receive comfort from the person that matters most; yourself!


About Author

I am a Medical Underwriter in arguably one of the largest insurance companies in East Africa. It’s during this period that I emerged from my cocoon, I discovered interesting things about myself that have continually nudged me to face life with renewed radiance. I discovered my hobbies were not just sleeping and reading but I had more to offer life than I possibly thought. It’s safe to say these days I run out of time ….I love swimming, dancing, blogging, modelling and watching movies. As far as my long-term career development goals are concerned.My career goal right now is to get a chance to work as Business Developer-Health division, take up a senior management position later on and in due time become a CEO with an aim of impacting positively in the insurance industry.I plan to also study a Diploma in Insurance to add to my actuarial degree, grow in the underwriting department and get to a management position.If you are an employee,you should be shortlisting me now. When free I run a personal blog Dollypinky.com, please subscribe and get inspired by my articles. In addition, I am actively pursuing modelling at my free time. I have found interest in this field as it has helped me refine my body language and brought out additional positive aspects in my personality. Follow me on Instagram and twitter as Dollypinky_chepngetich and get to read my interesting posts which more often than not are accompanied by some good images.


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