WOMEN LOVE ATTENTION,GIVE THEM!

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I cannot deny that I love attention, as does every lady. Ladies love attention but I must also add that I have learned to no longer beg for attention unlike when I was younger. I would cry after a fight with my brother so that my father came running to my rescue. I have grown to know the value and worth I carry. I am learning to involve God in my battles and leave the people I love to attend to other urgent issues.

Some men, unfortunately, have used this need for attention to their evil advantage, denying the women the attention they are dying for, making the women try so hard to get it. This is the same as fighting the women in their lives, the reason we hear of women staying in abusive relationships. Women of high positions are not left out. Love knows no status. Unfortunately, we get to hear the full story while attending the funeral, after someone was brutally murdered. It has to stop!

The way some men bring down a lady, however strong, is by manipulating their thinking. They make them feel useless, they shout at them showing clearly there is a distance between them, otherwise, there is no need to shout and what makes it even worse is comparing them to other ladies. This kills the self-esteem of any lady and they start wondering what could be wrong with them.This way, they make the lady see him as the hero and the only man who can stand her. I am tired of hearing all these sad stories of a lady killed by her lover, lady having her hands chopped off by her spouse, lady blah blah…why don’t we value our women?
A real secure man is not intimidated by a powerful lady and does not need to manipulate anyone. He encourages her and holds her hand when the road is slippery, he helps her finds herself and is not scared of her doing better than him. He will not toy with her emotions but allow her to be herself. These men end up with the best wives because they make them by allowing them to be themselves.

Someone once said, Love is not just about finding the right person but creating the right relationship, it’s not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you built till the end. Love is not about the number of children you have in your marriage, it’s all about the two of you.

 

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I am a Medical Underwriter in arguably one of the largest insurance companies in East Africa. It’s during this period that I emerged from my cocoon, I discovered interesting things about myself that have continually nudged me to face life with renewed radiance. I discovered my hobbies were not just sleeping and reading but I had more to offer life than I possibly thought. It’s safe to say these days I run out of time ….I love swimming, dancing, blogging, modelling and watching movies. As far as my long-term career development goals are concerned.My career goal right now is to get a chance to work as Business Developer-Health division, take up a senior management position later on and in due time become a CEO with an aim of impacting positively in the insurance industry.I plan to also study a Diploma in Insurance to add to my actuarial degree, grow in the underwriting department and get to a management position.If you are an employee,you should be shortlisting me now. When free I run a personal blog Dollypinky.com, please subscribe and get inspired by my articles. In addition, I am actively pursuing modelling at my free time. I have found interest in this field as it has helped me refine my body language and brought out additional positive aspects in my personality. Follow me on Instagram and twitter as Dollypinky_chepngetich and get to read my interesting posts which more often than not are accompanied by some good images.

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