Love and respect are inseparable. It’s only natural to honor that which you are fond of. Therefore, to be able to respect yourself, you must first deeply love you. Love yourself enough to say No to things that no longer grow you and even to friendships that no longer excite you. The moment you start struggling to accommodate certain stuff in your life, then know it’s time to let it go. Have the strength to stand up for you and your beliefs.

True strength is in the soul and spirit, not in muscles. It’s about having faith and trust in who you are, and a willingness to act upon it. This is not to mean that the process is going to be  easy,if anything,it might cost you a few friendships.Discovering who you are and deciding to be you will require  getting rid of your older self.Unlearning your unhealthy habits and embracing your new worthwhile lifestyle that leads to a great future. There is also the bitter truth of accepting you have been wrong in some things and the humility of willing to learn from them mistakes.

Today, look at yourself in the mirror and say, “I love you, and from now onward I’m going to act like it.” It’s important to be nice to others, but it’s even more important to be nice to yourself. Don’t ever forget your worth.To be able to spread love to others you must first start with yourself. Charity begins at home apply in this case.You are a very special being created with  purpose,you matter.Let no one ever make you feel any less.Fight negative thoughts and feed your mind and thoughts with positivity.

When you practice self-love and self-respect, you give yourself the opportunity to be happy. When you are happy, you become a better friend,mother,father,sister or brother and of cause a better YOU!Decide this minute to never again beg anyone for the love, respect, and attention that you should be showing yourself.

Thanks for visiting.

love Dolly

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